edit -- I'm told no one can usually tell precisely when I'm joking.

I want to laugh with your incredibly funny comment, but am beginning to fear I've offended Bicho with my accusations. Perhaps he didn't believe me when I suspected him before. With his pretense of needing external wisdom... just to get me saying the right things, for me. Or am I just wrong to expose anything private at all? I guess that's a slippery slope...