Incels know the world doesn’t give a fuck about them and reviles them even for their problems (and how they handle them), that’s all. If they thought any different, I’m sure they’d be spouting about themselves and their in-group as does everyone else.
But I do believe there’s much counter-productive effort coming from most groups suffering from oppression today. I tend to preach against retaliation and negativity of any kind , because it only ever prolongs a war and passes the responsibility to finish it to another generation down the line. And yet... darkness must and will exist.